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Would You Like To Meet Girls?
You know, men ask me about " understanding women " and "how to relate to a woman " and other such things frequently .
Still honestly the best answer for all of these sort of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to approach women?"
You get experience any way you can. Go anywhere there are lots of women and just practice. Don't worry if you are perfect. Just practice and get the experience yourself. In the end you will learn on your own and you will start getting dates. Yes that's right - no matter how unsightly, stupid, poor or old you are. If you just practice you will start getting dates.
And when you start getting dates. Then date, date, date, date, date!
It is often known as multiple or serial dating.
I guess I should elucidate. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a companion.
And I am not talking about individuals who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
But, serial dating applied in the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better comprehension of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you are partial to, and what you like, and what kinds of folk like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
What do you think most parents told their teen sons and daughters?
They said: "Don't get very serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.
Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
Unfortunately, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people normally continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the last analysis it leads to unhappiness in relationships, and a failure to comprehend the opposite sex.
You see there are many different kinds of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
The cure is elementary. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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