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Get Back Your Ex Simply By Becoming Less Attainable And Even More Of A Challenge To Her
You had been a challenge for her. You had a high value and she was irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm going to make a wild guess here, and yet is it that as time went on, you have become less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that at this time, you are zero challenge for her? Not to mention that she understands that if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her little finger simply by saying the word?
I'm going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge again you must show to your ex-girlfriend that her sexuality has no control over you any longer. Consider what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think of exactly what it is like when you continue doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other alternatives.
Your lover is not going to respect you again until you refuse her power over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not directly communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
You should definitely stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. You should not be "pals" with her, as that rewards her with the continued consent of power over you while giving her a convenient justification to stay split up. (Your ex reasons that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging any culpability she may feel.)
However, you should definitely keep her locked in with your things. Probably a lot of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She may get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like all of it returned.
The very best answer to this is "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her holding onto your stuff (and you possessing hers) is still locking you two in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you must fully accept -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you're an independent person now. Take what occurred with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a fantastic chance to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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